The Village that Made me cross

I thought crossing was a solo journey—until I realized it took a village to get me there.”

In this deeply personal and inspiring memoir, Anthony Reeves, Esq., takes you inside the emotional rollercoaster of pledging Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc. as a young college student at a school without a chapter of his own. But this isn’t just a story about becoming Greek—it’s a story about the unexpected power of community.

From a friend who quietly paid for his pledge gear, to classmates who threw a party to help fund his journey, The Village That Made Me Cross is a raw, heartfelt reflection on how sometimes the people around us rise up to help us achieve our dreams—even when we don’t ask.

Set in the late 1980s, this book is more than a coming-of-age story. It’s a testimony to the kindness of strangers, the loyalty of friends, and the spirit of a village that believed in one young man’s dream enough to make it their mission.

Whether you’re Greek, thinking about pledging, or simply someone who believes in the power of support and purpose, this story will stay with you long after you turn the last page.

Perfect for readers who enjoy:

• Black Greek-letter organization culture
• Stories of resilience, friendship, and community
• 1980s college life and personal memoirs
• Black Gen X reflections and identity narratives